Letting Go Of Control & Surrendering To The Path Of Romance (I Mean Self-Love) IS…

Intense to say the least. This digusting path to “enlightenment” is so convoluted; it’s filled with heavy mindf*cks galore. And yet where is the proverbial candy to break free from the groundhog’s day circle? Is this just a forced waiting period or is there something that I am just “not getting” in order for it all to click into place? So many quantum possibilities yet it still doesn’t “make sense”. Is it even supposed to?

Something’s gotta f**kn give! That’s what I would think…how can it all just be a giant illusion? It’s so easy to forget (to just even trying to love ourselves) when we are constantly fed temptation. Temptation to stray the path. Yes, divine timing is a thing for sure, however, what if my focus were on things that were not part of the new reality. Essentially letting go of a bad old habit and changing it to a good, aligned habit instead. You or I may technically be in an undesired reality, but with the shift in habits and focus will quantum leap into the desired reality. The real-life fantasy.

Not to sit and worry about how exactly it will all be rearranged for the next step to be taken. Trusting that will each changed behavior, you will shift. Could be something like pretending to already live with your SP. How to make it believable to you personally. And just asking ourselves “Do I believe that I don’t live in this reality? or Do I believe that do I live in this reality?” How to know if our subconscious mind is actually, totally convinced…how can we tell we made a good impression on the silly bastard! We start to see evidence of that reality unfolding before our very eyes. Being grateful for this unfolding. Knowing that it’s happening (even if it’s seemingly simple; like it happened to someone else). But we don’t like that. It makes us feel jealous. Training to not feel so jealous it can be tough to do alone. This is why it’s phenomenal when you can work this feeling out with someone you can trust. A friend, a spiritual coach, a family member etc. Controlling the feelings and habits, that’s in our control, but what gets in the way is our insanely logical thought process. We think “How are we going to change all this now?!

It’s a day at time. If we have trouble doing it alone, an accountability partner can be a powerful force to reckon with. It’s so easy to procrastinate. To default to the unwanted habit. To be lost in a godforsaken sea abyss…drowning in massive fears, grief, anger, shame, guilt, remorse etc. The disempowering emotions. What are we feeding our subconscious mind? Feeling proud for wanting it badly enough to work through the discomfort. For pushing yourself to stick to the new habit. The new habits that will transform you and your reality, simultaneously. This a form of self-love. This what we need to default to.

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SEVERE ALLERGY RESCUE KIT

  1. This antihistamine is superior to any other antihistamine I’ve tried including, Clartin, Zyrtec, Allegra, Benadryl, Alavert etc.

It’s called Xyzal and it is offered in a generic version as well:

Where to Buy Xyzal® Allergy 24HR and Children’s Xyzal® Allergy 24HR | Xyzal® Allergy Relief Products

2) Taking a spoonful of ginger powder. You can do so several times during the day if you wish.

3) Netipot – There are many brands to choose from. This is the one I personally used:

Amazon.com: Ancient Secrets Nasal Cleansing Pot, Plastic Travel Model, Box : Health & Household

4) A highly rated water mist, air purifier. This will help a lot if the air is dry in your room.

5) Nasal Spray: Amazon.com: Xlear Nasal Spray, Natural Saline Nasal Spray with Xylitol, Nose Moisturizer for Kids and Adults, 1.5 fl oz (Pack of 1) : Health & Household

I’ve found these products to be very, very helpful when used together. I’ve suffered from extremely severe allergies throughout my life. Not even allergy shots helped me as much as these items.

If this helped you experience relief, please let me know by leaving a positive comment below. It would not only be very much appreciated but it’s also a fair energy exchange.

I am not receiving an affiliate commission or sponsorship for this post.

Namaste!

THIS PRODUCT IS THE CURE FOR JOCK ITCH…

I’ve tried several different products from pharmacies and also tried RX from dermatologist. They offered temporary relief at best. This bottle of cream is the cure. It is a small bottle but I was cured before finishing it. If this helped you, please leave a comment. Thanks!

Amazon.com: TAGRID Jock Itch Cream, Jock Itch, Tinea Cruris, Jock Itch Cream Extra Strength for Men & Women, Tinea Corporis, Itch Cream – Powerful & Fast – 60g : Health & Household

THIS IS WHAT’S BLOCKING YOU FROM MANIFESTING…

SERIOUS ATTACHMENT:

Wanting to know exactly, step by step, how a desire you wish to manifest will happen (literally). This causes obsessive overthinking, which then instantly creates a plethora of negative emotions; making you feel like you’re being buried alive, six feet deep. I feel that this is because of our traumatic past experience where we did not get what we wanted.

We want to be 100% certain that we do not fail to get what we want without making a single error. We say to ourselves “If I know exactly what to do this time around then I won’t mess it all up and I certainly won’t be lost getting there!”.

The ironic part though is, attempting to predict every single step of the way causes us to get lost and also block it from coming through. Believe me, I had a constant, obsessive need to not only consult my own divination tools, but to also obsessively consult other psychics for crystal clear answers. Yet the answers never truly came to me until the scenarios actually played themselves out in 3D reality. This came from not trusting my intuition, because I felt that my intuition totally failed me in the past (when it was actually my ego guiding me in the past).

To go even deeper, if you think about it, we have been conditioned to take life completely seriously (which then leaves no room to relax or truly enjoy the present moment). We experience psych outs (which I’ll talk about in another blog post) that throw us for a mental and emotional loop. They make us feel like we are unable to reach our desired outcome, serving as a horrifying reminder of the past (which was just simply contrast).

For example, I would start to write affirmations about receiving a lot money. Listening to meditations on YouTube on repeat. Saying these affirmations mentally and aloud. Starting to feel that awesome feeling of wealth until I saw a bill come in the mail, money being taking away from me, or being reminded of how ridiculously expensive life is!!! My hope became crushed in a New York minute. I would then start to hear my father say “Money doesn’t grow on trees!”.

Insurmountable pressure filled me up to the brim. My imagination seemed so childish. I thought and felt that I got so carried away; being friggin’ delusional. However, that’s because I was taught from an extremely narrow/limited perspective.

That the ONLY way to receive a lot of money is to work your skull off at a job you didn’t have any passion for. Yet I kept seeing A LOT of other people making a A LOT of money doing something they were passionate about. What was I missing? What was wrong with me? Am I cursed? These were the questions that would run through my brain endlessly.

I would resign to the belief that I just didn’t have what it takes to achieve my goals. BUT this is because I was continuing to view and execute life through an extremely narrow lens. Especially when you throw time into the equation. Thinking about time wasted and youth wasted, that I’ll never get back. Yet I forgot that life can change in an instant (even in just ONE DAY) for the absolute better in a HUGE way!

Instead of focusing on receiving the instant gratification, I realized instead to focus on each single day doing my best and trusting that the desired results will come. Not being afraid that my effort will be ALL FOR NOTHING! For that was definitely one of my biggest fears…

The bottom line is that all we can do (and should do) is put forth our best effort and then LET GO. Let go of trying to figure out how tomorrow will play out and to focus on today instead. To go with what feels good to do instead of what doesn’t feel good to do. Trusting that if a desire we want to happen so badly doesn’t happen it’s either because it’s not the right time or that there’s something even better in store. It just takes some honest discipline to work on your goals as much as possible, one step at a time, without all the distractions.

KEJIWA ORMUS REVIEW

I kept seeing ads for this product on Facebook and Instagram constantly. I was skeptical that this consumable liquid would live up to its potential claims that are listed in the product description: Frankincense, Myrrh & Gold Ormus – Kejiwa Alchemy (kejiwastore.com)

Nevertheless, out of curiosity (and in the hope of aiding my potential to manifest more quickly), I decided to give this pricey bottle a try. I opted for the regular 101 ml size since the sample size was sold out. Also, the XL 500 ml size was more than double the price of the regular size. So it made logical sense to buy the smaller size in case I didn’t find the product to be satisfactory…

Well what I will say is that the liquid does have a pretty good taste and smell to it. It does go down smoothly when ingesting it. The screw cap for sealing the bottle is well made. However, that’s all the positives I can say about this product.

I honestly did not experience any type of reaction from drinking the liquid. I didn’t feel any boost to my energy, it did not open up my pineal gland, I did not have lucid dreams, and I didn’t at least feel like I dropped into a state of meditation because of it.

Now while the website does mention that it’s possible that some people may not feel anything, I think it’s pretty ludicrous to make so many claims only to end up NOT experiencing any of the supposed positive benefits.

I do respect innovation and am willing to try new products that I find online even if I haven’t heard of them before, but I sincerely feel like I got ripped off.

Of course the website is flooded with only 5 star reviews (and not that many reviews altogether) which is quite suspicious. How convenient for the company to not offer a refund or exchange if you’ve opened the product.

Bottom line, if you are thinking about purchasing from this company or know someone who is considering doing so, I’d advise you to keep your money and look elsewhere. I feel that’s it fair to label them as a gimmick.

If you know of another company that offers a similar product that has worked for you or if you’ve had success with Kejiwa’s products, please feel free to comment down below.

Namaste!

MY TRUE TWIN FLAME SAGA

1) THE FALSE TWIN FLAME / RESEARCHING STAGE:

6 years ago, I was dating a narcissist. I was very confused about the relationship, and I also felt very guilty to leave the relationship. Early on in the relationship, I felt pulled to Google my question…”Why is my girlfriend making me feel this way?”.

The first set of search results led to other search results. Eventually, I stumbled upon articles that covered the topic of soulmates and twin flames. I always knew what a soulmate was, but I never heard of the whole twin flame thing…

Shortly after reading about twin flames, I became immediately fascinated. I researched the topic thoroughly, wanting to know every last detail. My life began to make sense to me for the first time.

As a result, I wanted to then determine who my ex was to me. Was she a true twin flame, a false twin flame, or a karmic soulmate???

There were certain aspects of the relationship that fooled me into thinking that it could perhaps have been a true twin flame experience. That was until when I re-watched a video one evening after our final vacation that listed many signs of a false twin flame specifically. Every single sign checked off. My eyes opened wide. I realized that my true twin flame was still out there in the world. I had a pretty good idea of what I was getting myself into, but really I had no idea until I actually experienced it with my own eyes.

The next day after watching that video, I packed my things up once more and I left for good this time.

2) HOW I WAS LED TO MEETING HER / HOW I MET HER (MY TRUE TWIN FLAME):

OK, I want to start off by saying that I wasn’t SO QUICK to put a label on this person who I believed to have been my true twin flame…

I was actually fairly skeptical about the concept (even though it did generate a ton of excitement and curiosity in me).

BUT, I specifically wrote in my journal one day during another dark night of the soul the following: “Dear God, I am ready to meet my TRUE twin flame. Please lead me to her in a way that I will know as clear as crystal!”. Lol I wrote it a bit differently than that but you get the gist. I capitalized the word true because I knew that I had already gone through a false twin flame experience and wanted to ensure that I would be meeting my true one this time around.

Shortly after writing this in my journal, I was told I should go to a Tony Robbin’s seminar. I went and on the second day of the seminar I receive a download from spirit that said I will meet her on the last day of the event. I asked spirit “why on the last day?”. Spirit said “because this way you two won’t be distracted from the rest of the event and we are saving it as a special surprise”.

Sure enough, I checked the event schedule and the last day was on November 11th (which is well known to be a highly spiritual day that has to do with twin flames and soulmates). It felt like a strong validation in regards to the download I received from spirit.

The last day came. I chose seat #11 to be in alignment with this whole November 11th thing and I also was paying attention to the time on my phone. The time starting with 11:11, changing to 12:22, 1:11, 2:22, 3:33, 4:44, and then 5:55. I felt something was about to happen, and it did.

I saw her in the crowd, several rows down from me. I saw her running up and down the staircase. It hit me on a heart and soul level (full throttle) that I HAD to introduce myself to her. I was getting nervous, thinking of what to say as an opener, and then all of the sudden the final exercise at the event was announced. It was called a twin heart’s meditation (which is pretty damn close to twin flame, don’t you think?).

I began the exercise. Choose a partner, look into their eyes, and hold your hands out at a small distance. Give unconditional love. The eyes are the window into the soul the announcer said. I was thinking holy cow, you really can’t get more twin flame than this based on what I read online?! Also, I went from not ever wanting to get married or have children to suddenly feeling like I do with this person. I could not believe it. I thought it was literally impossible!

HOW I MET MY TRUE TWIN FLAME – YouTube

After this mind blowing meeting where I felt full of joy and unconditional love radiating from myself and her, I took down her number to stay in touch.

3) THE PERFECT SYNCHRONICITIES/ MANIFESTATIONS / SIGNS:

Now at this point while I was absolutely thrilled that I ACTUALLY had the exact experience that these online people were referring to, I all of the sudden became very anxious.

I became very anxious because I remembered the information also said that it’s highly likely that she will already be in a relationship with someone else. Which made me think then what the hell is the point of having the most beautiful experience of my life if that means the buck stops at friendship? But I couldn’t help myself. I felt called to follow what my heart and soul wanted. I felt that it was worth the risk of discovering that the feeling may not be mutual after all. Then began the perfect synchronicities.

1 – I was working with a twin flame coach at the time. I explained that I was feeling anxious since she didn’t text me back after 4 days since first texting her. The coach instructed me to close my eyes and give myself love for a while. As soon as I was done doing that, I opened my eyes and saw that this girl I believed to be my twin finally texted me back.

2 – I renamed my own phone number contact “My True Twin Flame”. I had a problem with my Apple Watch and took it to the Apple store to get it fixed. After I got it fixed I came home and saw my contact list. It said My True Twin Flame and right underneath it was her contact. While I thought it was a one time fluke, it happened again and again. The contacts would separate in the text message threads but then eventually come back together without me doing anything to make it happen.

3 – I began to see her first and last name in so many places all of the sudden. I further tested this by utilizing the method I channeled to reveal the name of my true twin flame and sure enough her name would show up even more frequently! How To Reveal The Name Of Your True Twin Flame Or Soulmate – YouTube

4 – I received more downloaded messages from spirit. In the very beginning of texting her, the communication was rather weak. She would write me just enough back, and sometimes just stopped answering altogether. Spirit suggested I pick up food from a bar on a night I knew she was working because she told me so when she spoke to me on the phone. Of course I was nervous going thinking I was a creep or a stalker (which was honestly a big part of this experience) but I went anyway. To my surprise she was glad to see me. There was still those big smiles and long gazes in one another’s eyes happening. Energetically it felt like it was out of a movie scene. Then as New Year’s was approaching I asked God if he could have me be with my true twin flame on NYE that would be amazing. I surrendered and let it go, and honestly thought it was impossible that this would happen since I didn’t hear from her at this point. Also, I was coming once again unannounced which triggered that worry in me that I was being creepy. I was concerned she may have been with someone else, that I wouldn’t find her there etc., but sure enough as I stood on line I turned my head to see that she was there, working there that night. She turned her head to see me standing on line and smiled. It felt like she was happy to see me. Once again this made me feel very validated in regards to the spirit downloads I was getting. However, after that very interesting evening, I still heard nothing from her. So at this point I labeled myself as this creep/stalker and said I was delusional. That I need to let go and give it up.

5 – I did give up for months, but I kept seeing her post about a beginner yoga class. And one day while walking the family dog, spirit said I should go to the class. So I said “fuck it, I’ll go!”. To my surprise she was very happy to see me, even though I came unannounced once again. Also, before parking my car on one side of the street, something made me feel that I should park on the other side of the street. Little did I know I ended up parking right behind her car. And every time I came to her yoga class I did find a spot either in front or in back of her car. The one time there wasn’t a spot, I proceeded to find somewhere else to park but then someone pulled out of their spot that was right behind her car. Again, don’t you think this all so far a bit too much to call just a freakin’ coincidence???

6 – One day I was driving to her yoga class and I thought to myself how nice it would be if it could be just 1 on 1 with her instead of other people showing up. I thought to myself “Nah! that’s not going to happen!”. What do you know, the very same day it ended up being just her and I and no one else…and I’m pretty sure I would see the clock say 11:11 during those classes.

7 – She and I did our hypnotist training separately in different locations, but around the same time. Furthermore, after not hearing from her in a while, she texted me towards the end of my hypnotist training, wondering how my Summer was going and if I wanted an essential oil refill. I told her sure! Called her up to set up a time and place to meet. She agreed to meet me at Starbucks.

4) THE SUDDEN CHANGES IN OUR DYNAMIC:

OK so I want you to understand that this was a sudden and big change from my perspective because all of the times prior I would meet her at her job. She told me that her boyfriend wasn’t comfortable with her meeting me even for lunch as friends. I understood this and respected the boundaries always. I was a gentleman about it the whole time and wasn’t going to be a dick about it (even though I could have been). This again was crazy enough of a dynamic and I was treading lightly since I would want the same respect if someone were with me in a relationship…

BUT anyway so I was thinking that this was really interesting that this was happening all of the sudden. Furthermore, she didn’t just give me the essential oils and depart, she actually let me buy her coffee, sit down and chat.

I made her laugh a bit. Then we got talking about the Dark Night Of The Soul at one point. There was always a wonderful dialogue between us. I felt truly understood and heard by her. She would listen actively and intently to me. Of course I held equal space for her. I wanted to know and understand her soul. I wanted to know about her inner child. I wanted her to know that she could genuinely trust me. I was so surprised and happy that I got the pleasure of meeting her mother and her father. This was not a lust thing for me, this was the feeling that I met my other half for the first time in my life and I couldn’t understand why I would meet her when she was unavailable.

Then at one point she told me she had to leave to go on a walk with her dad, but gave me the essential oils for free. This was also unusual because prior to this I was always paying her for her classes and her oils. And then I told her she should follow me on IG. She said she was taking a social media break, deleted the app, but would follow me. I thought myself “Lol, she isn’t going to follow me.” Sure enough, I go home that day, take a nap and wake up to see that she was following me. So I thought, wow…like what the heck happened? I also thought it was peculiar that when I asked her how things with her and her boyfriend were she just said “Good!” but did not elaborate. Which gave me the feeling like things weren’t good…furthermore, at another point she had pictures up on IG with him for some time as well as his name in the bio. But then one day it all came down followed by her putting up pictures by herself. I’ve seen this happen many times where when a woman breaks up with someone they immediately change the pictures back to just themselves. Again, I thought I was on to something. That this was a validation that she was in an on and off relationship with a narcissist (also known as a karmic soulmate).

And OH JEEZ do I know what it’s like to be sucked back into an unhealthy relationship! However, regardless if I am right or wrong about this situation I wish her well. I still want her to be happy even if she chose someone else. Of course I had to battle this out with my ego for a long time before I came to this place of consciousness. I also couldn’t believe that I would ever encounter at least an equally epic experience such as this and feared I would end up dying alone. That was until recently.

I had prayed and hoped that she would have an awakening (like many folks out there who too believe to be in a true twin flame dynamic) and I was confident that she would have a sudden realization about me since I took her to be so spiritually attuned. But it ultimately comes down to free will, and you can’t force someone to love you back in the way you’d like it to be.

Do I miss our time together? Absolutely. But I have no choice except to “move on”. I did all that I could do. It is her life and I don’t blame her for thinking that us being twin flames is bullshit. It seems illogical. We were just friends and I was just a client. But all I do know is that what I saw, I can’t ever unsee.

I can’t unsee me telling her how I felt about her early on but then all of the sudden when I had done nothing wrong, suddenly it’s an issue. I can’t unsee me asking her out several times, and instead of telling me to get lost or block me, we started to get closer in our friendship. I can’t unsee me telling her that I believed we were twin flames after she asked me if I knew who my twin flame was and her responding in a positive way on the phone call, not wanting to hang up. But then later on telling me she “thinks she knows who she is supposed to be with”. I can’t unsee her being an avid supporter of me when I was just starting out with this whole Ascension Express thing. I can’t unsee her starting to reach out to me more and more, constantly checking my IG, and then suddenly disconnecting from me as if I meant nothing to her.

Which led me to ask myself, was I dealing with a narcissist all along disguised as an empath? Was my experience just a wild figment of my imagination leaving me to wonder what is real and what isn’t? Is this all just a big part of the plan that has to happen in order to make an impossible miracle to happen? Or was this my true twin flame acting as a karmic catalyst, to help me grow as a person and lead me to someone else?

Honestly, I do not have the answer right now, but all that I can tell you is that I don’t regret having met her and knowing her. Even though it also caused me the most intense/hellish pain I’ve ever had to endure. Leaving me feeling like there literally was no more point to me life (and wanting to end it). I never thought I could feel this way about the opposite sex. Not for nothing this experience made me truly understand what unconditional love means.

DO I NEED TO HIRE A LAWYER IN ORDER TO FIGHT A FRIVOLOUS LAWSUIT?

DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT A LICENSED LAWYER. YOU HEREBY AGREE TO READ THIS INFORMATION (NOT AS LEGAL ADVICE), BUT RATHER AS A FRIENDLY SUGGESTION OF WHAT TO DO IN THIS SITUATION; BASED UPON MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. THIS INFORMATION IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR CONSULTING WITH A LICENSED LAWYER IN YOUR COUNTRY. MY EXPERIENCE IS BASED ON THE U.S.A. LEGAL SYSTEM. I CANNOT AND WILL NOT BE HELD LIABLE FOR ANY REASON IF YOU DECIDE TO FOLLOW MY FRIENDLY SUGGESTION LISTED HERE. PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK.

The short TL;DR answer is, it depends.

Now as far as hiring a lawyer…if you feel that the lawsuit is total bullshit to begin with, then honestly don’t waste your money hiring a lawyer, and instead respond to the complaint yourself via Pro Se. You can always hire an attorney later on if the case does in fact go to trial. Also, in many cases the lawsuit is settled before ever reaching trial.

1. You do in fact have the option of answering the complaint YOURSELF, and requesting an extension of time to answer the complaint YOURSELF via Pro Se for FREE. A lawyer requiring payment in exchange for their legal representation will not ever advise you to go the Pro Se route. This is because they want to get paid, and they also don’t want to get blamed (or run the legal risk for advising you to defend yourself without a lawyer).

2. To answer the complaint you received, follow the instructions as per the court that is listed in the complaint. They are most likely going to ask that you write your responses to them via old fashioned snail mail or electronically via their official website.

3. To get an extension of time regarding answering the complaint, contact the plaintiff’s attorney. If the plaintiff’s attorney refuses or gives you a hard time about it, contact the court instead. The judge will most likely grant you an extension of time. However, the amount of extensions granted will probably be limited (for example, 1-3 extensions in total), so please use that time diligently to complete writing and forwarding your written response to the court.

4. Jurisdiction is a significant factor (at least in the U.S.A.) when it comes down to lawsuits. If the plaintiff is suing you in a different state or country from where you personally live/reside, then the court most likely will not have either personal jurisdiction or subject matter jurisdiction over you, the defendant. This means that the lawsuit has a very good chance of being dismissed.

5. Always insist that the lawsuit be dismissed WITH PREJUDICE so that the plaintiff will not be able to re-open the same lawsuit against you, ever again. If the lawsuit is dismissed WITHOUT PREJUDICE then the plaintiff will be able to re-open the same lawsuit against you.

If you have any other questions or concerns, go ahead and leave them in the comment section below. I’ll do the best I can to answer them, but please remember that I am NOT a licensed lawyer and can only give you my personal opinion based on my personal experience.

GODADDY AND BLUEHOST ARE TWO OF THE WORST HOSTING COMPANIES ON EARTH! HERE’S WHY…

GoDaddy

GoDaddy upsold me an expensive website backup plan that I simply DID NOT NEED. There were in fact plenty of free plugins (or much lower cost paid plugins) available for me to use instead.

GoDaddy has NEVER ONCE been helpful in resolving an abuse report issue that I had. It’s absolutely pathetic and a joke. I have sent SO MANY requests (in order to contact different domain holders via GoDaddy’s website) and yet NOT ONE domain holder responded back to me or took any action as per my request. I ALWAYS had to reach out to the hosting provider in order to successfully fulfill my request (granted if it was a different host provider than GoDaddy).

GoDaddy is an absolute GREEDY BASTARD when it comes to their “website broker” service. The amount of money that they charge for this service is absolutely obscene and makes you despise their guts instantly; which I despise with a passion!!! I opted to give them the middle finger and chose a different domain extension other than a dot com (in those cases where the dot com one I wanted was already taken). They know that dot coms are favored over all other domain extensions when it comes to search engine indexing and they’ve been trying to take advantage of that fact for years.

GoDaddy is extremely hands off when it comes to helping you with the WordPress aspect of your website, unless you pay them A LOT of money for their help. Maybe this has changed by now, but I know damn well that I DID NOT GET ANY HELP (back when I definitely needed it). This was totally despicable, considering the high amount of money I paid them. They shouldn’t be offering a product that they cannot provide support for. My experience with Managed WordPress SUCKED! My website crashed due to an issue with “incompatible plugins”, but it was really because GoDaddy’s watered down version of WordPress was trash. As you can imagine I was FURIOUS!!!

GoDaddy’s D.I.Y. website builder is severely limited in capabilities. Their example templates look attractive, but when you actually try to build the site for real you will discover how little you are able to modify it.

BlueHost

BlueHost had an issue with their D.I.Y. website builder that they promised to fix. They claimed that they were prioritizing the issue, but after an entire month the issue was STILL NOT FIXED!!! One of the WordPress plugins had a bug, rendering it to be completely useless. This was a big problem, as I simply was not able to accept payment from customers as a result.

BlueHost has a really annoying 2-step authentication token system that requires you to authenticate who you are every time you contact them for support. I must say that SquareSpace and WordPress make it super simple and easy to chat with an expert. All other hosting and domain providers outta take a leaf from SquareSpace’s approach to this.

BlueHost made it an ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE to transfer out to another provider. I must have contacted them more than 10 times over the span of weeks in order to successfully transfer out to another host. They made the process way too complicated, unnecessarily.

WORDPRESS.COM = A KICK ASS, STELLAR WEBSITE BUILDING COMPANY / DOMAIN HOSTING PROVIDER! HERE’S WHY…

Ironically, I used to hate WordPress with a passion! Back when I had to manually install its’ software on a GoDaddy website I owned at the time…it was a total nightmare to say the least…and to this day I still hate GoDaddy with a passion!

SIDE NOTE: Check out this blog I wrote about GoDaddy and Bluehost that tells you why you should NEVER give these companies any of your valuable money or time: https://ascensionexpress.com/godaddysucks/

Fast forward, after not being fully satisfied with Wix, I decided to give wordpress.com a shot (once I realized it had finally offered customer support to go along with their paid W.Y.S.I.W.Y.G. domain and hosting plans).

I simply couldn’t be bothered to continue trying to learn website coding language. I found it to be extremely tedious, frustrating, and time consuming. Also, I did not want to be limited in terms of customization when it came to the design and functionality aspects of my website.

Sites like GoDaddy, Bluehost, Wix, and even SquareSpace all have their limitations that you will quickly discover when trying to build the website yourself. You are often forced to pay for expensive monthly or yearly add-ons in order to load the additional features to your site.

What I found remarkable about wordpress.com right off the bat was not only the powerful built-in tools you can use to customize your blog posts, but also its’ super friendly and helpful customer service (that deserves the modern internet golden medal award IMHO).

With my wordpress.com Business plan I am able to receive live chat support with WP happiness customer service engineers 24/7 (so long as there isn’t a site outage or something else going on with wordpress.com).

I invite you to now browse the different plans that WP offers and compare the differences in offered features, side by side:

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Sure, you will definitely find other domain and/or hosting companies that offer a similar service at a much lower price, but I assure you that you will not get the top quality and reliability that WP offers. Every penny spent is justified by the completely amazing value that you are getting without having to spend thousands of dollars having a website developer build and design a website for you from scratch.

Furthermore, you can maintain the website yourself quite easily by just logging into your account. This certainly beats the hell out of hoping that your website developer doesn’t just suddenly ghost you, or at the very least delays fixing your site with the updates that are necessary for perfect site working order. As the old saying goes “If you want something done right, do it yourself!”.

Finally I would like to mention that if you want to customize your website that goes beyond your WP theme’s capabilities, you can always contact a WP happiness engineer and they will gladly provide you with the exact custom CSS code and instructions to accomplish your website expansion goals! To me this is a humungous perk because many other similar providers do not offer support in respect to helping you with CSS code customization 😀